One of the most important roles coaches play in preparing players for competition and life is to give them a chance to develop good character.
We expect a game plan for coaching the X’s and O’s of our sport. What isn’t always clear is how to coach character. Over time we have seen an ever-growing gap develop between coaching the fundamental aspects of a specific sport and the development of quality character. Character Coaches exist to fill this crucial gap in developing the complete athlete.
CHARACTER COACH VS. CHAPLAIN
When discussing the role of a Character Coach it is important to know the difference between a Character Coach and a Chaplain. Both roles are critically important but distinctively different. Which role you play with a team is determined by the audience. When it comes to using sports to reach out youth, Character Coaching is the ultimate
"stand-in-the-gap" position you could ever imagine.
CHARACTER COACH | CHAPLAIN |
---|---|
Values-based | Faith-based |
The goal is to teach character/leadership qualities | The goal is to provide spiritual guidance and direction |
Coaches can make it manditory | Coaches must make it optional |
Model + Inform | Model + Inform + Convert |
A wide variety of people can serve the people of sport as Character Coaches. One need not be a sport ministry professional to faithfully serve and to impact the lives of coaches and athletes significantly.
Among those who could serve in this role are:
- Parents of players in youth sports (school based teams or club sports).
- Coaches of youth sports teams, school based teams or coaches at higher levels of sport.
- Community leaders with an interest in developing character.
- Athletic trainers or other support personnel with sports teams.
- Pastors or other ministry professionals.
- Church members who desire to make an impact by serving others.
FCA wants to provide teams with the best-trained, most effective Character Coaches that they can, so we have created a process:
- Completion of the online application called the Ministry Leader Application.
- Initiation of a relationship with an FCA staff member in your area for further training, encouragement, facilitation and accountability.
- Communication with the FCA staff prior to the season for planning, prayer, resources, etc
- Communication with the FCA staff during the season for encouragement, problem solving and further direction.
- Communication at the end of the season for evaluation, reporting of results, etc…
Character Coach Essentials
Keys to Being an Effective Character Coach
Be available to them, even when it's terribly inconvenient. The point of crisis or the inconvenient phone call is often the situation that either wins or loses you their trust and confidence.
To effectively serve the people of sport as their Character Coach; focus on the people and win their trust through serving them; watch your attitude; be in the right place at the right time; and keep strategies and methods secondary to the relational emphasis.
• Be Brief.
- Stay under 7 minutes!
- Time yourself as you prepare. Do not abuse the Coach’s wishes…this is the quickest way to lose respect and trust.
• Be Personal.
- Sharing a personal story or experience makes a great impact and it will help you connect with the audience.
• Be Simple.
- Do not try to cover too much information. Be simple and focused. Give them something they can remember and repeat.
• Be Motivational.
- Remember that these athletes are about to go into (or have just finished) intense competition. Always try to end your message with a charge for them to take action! What is it that you want them to do as a result of what they have just heard?
One of the roles of the Character Coach would be to give brief (7-10 minute) ‘character talks’ or lessons each week to the team. The following links contains 20 ‘character talks’ or lessons that revolve around a specific character trait. These lessons are a powerful resource and are to be used as a guide for an FCA Character Coach.